My Story

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To appreciate where I am today, you should know a little about my past.

IF YOU WANT A SPARK OF MY PAST THIS VERSION IS FOR YOU:

I am Lyne. Before I became dedicated to helping women and educators reconnect with their power, a Global Sisterhood trained facilitator, certified life coach and creator of Ignite in Circle, a 7-week program for women that combines the time-honoured structure of women's circles with personal growth training my life was missing some magic. In my twenties, I travelled alone and later earned a Master's in Education. Then I fell in love, became a teacher, bought a house and a new car and got married. I fell in love with my first class of grade 1 students, and I knew being a teacher was for me. I would change the world, one six-year-old at a time! Said the newly married, kidless teacher. In my thirties, motherhood kicked my ass, and just like that, a decade was gone and being a teacher was different. I wanted to do everything I was doing before, but now I am a mother of two who also wants to do everything. Living according to what I know now are outdated expectations lead me to burnout. I wasn't fulfilled at work or home and was frustrated, overwhelmed and exhausted. 

When I turned forty, the universe came knocking, and I knew there was something else I had to experience. I answered the call with a midlife awakening. Waking up from the social trance was hard, and stepping out of my comfort zone into the world of self-care and self-love was awkward. However, the more Me Time I took, the more energized I felt. Yes, I had more energy!! Crazy! I know!! I worked with a coach, took courses, saw a therapist and was able to reconnect with my authentic self. You know! The woman you were before kids or a career took over. I started writing Ignite in Circle, a version of a book I started in my twenties. Two years in, I met an editor who made me start over, and although it was incredibly heartbreaking, I knew my purpose was greater than the setback, so I kept going. The book became my signature program and nothing less than a magical experience for any woman who lives it. I am now aligned with my soul goal and obsessed with all things empowering women and educators, from mother guilt to promotions, body shame, and anxiety and helping you navigate this wild thing we call life.

IF YOU LIKE DETAILS THIS VERSION IS FOR YOU:

I was conceived in love, born in light, and by age 18, I was dancing with the devil. I was hopeless, depressed and unable to see the good in the world around me. Five therapists later, I found one that helped me "recover." In my program Ignite in Circle, I share the life lessons my lived experiences have taught me and the wisdom I gained through education, training and coaching. I encourage you to reflect on defining moments in your past, too. I also challenge you to grow outside your comfort zone. Nothing is going to change by sitting in your pjs scrolling through Instagram. 

Again, at 22, I was suffocating from social expectations, but this time, I was stronger. I quickly realized that I was living a quarter-life crisis, and I started writing a book for women questioning gender-based roles and the rush to find a career. In search of answers, I decided to travel!  

I went to Europe alone for nine weeks, explored 13 countries and worked in Santorini, Greece, where I practiced my Italian with the tourists. I have since travelled to 33 countries and strongly encourage you to travel independently. The strength you feel, the independence you experience, and the confidence you gain are unmatched. I worked on my book for about a year, met my husband Ross, and my expectations changed. Ten years later, after the birth of our healthy baby boy and just before the arrival of our sweetly strong daughter, I briefly worked on my book again. I wrote about the pressures of motherhood, but sadly, I was too exhausted to keep up. 

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Thinking about change

Deciding to take control of my life again and following through took a lot of self-convincing. I would need a lot of time and wondered if I was worth it. Sound familiar? You know exactly the life I am describing: the life that moves so fast you forget who you are and where you were going pre-love, pre-career. The life that keeps you so busy that you forget to call your best friend on her birthday and completely miss a wedding (ok, that last one might not apply to you, but I totally did that! I missed a wedding!). Living a rushed life in burnout was killing me.

Then I turned 40, and like society dictates, I felt a mid-life crisis knocking at my door. At first, I needed to figure out how to answer the call. I wondered why I was feeling vulnerable in my world. After all, I lived according to my privileges and birth gender. I did everything I was told to do. I earned a Bachelor of Arts degree, a postgraduate certificate in Public Relations, and then, a Masters degree in Education.

Although I struggled with my administrator and my career hit a personal low, teaching was still meaningful work. How dare my age attempt to shake up my life?! Just as I braced myself for a season of turbulence, I took a deep breath and realized it was time to reflect on where I've been and, more importantly, where I want to go. This time, I would reject social expectations and live according to my own rules. I would decide what being a good teacher, mother, and partner means.

Finding the courage to take action

Soooo, I did exactly what you are doing now: lost and confused, I started reading self-help books, blogs and websites. I needed to learn how to find my happiness and, more importantly, make it a reality. How can I ask you to do it if I haven't done the work? This meant I would have to intentionally focus on myself -YUCK! Have you ever sat in silence? It is crazy relaxing and yet totally awakening. It was in those moments of silence that my brain was able to connect the dots and guide me to what I have always known to be true:  I am meant to empower and motivate women and educators

This became clearer as I read new materials, studied non-violent communication (NVC), took courses in women's counselling, practiced new self-love routines, and reflected on my life by journaling with and without prompts. With that certainty, I found the confidence, excitement and energy to start this new journey running!! (I was filled with so much positive energy, and the length of my runs doubled -totally unexpected, totally amazing! I actually lost the pregnancy weight I'd been trying to lose for 13 years!). I was setting boundaries at work, and because I was happier, so were my students. And because I was happier at work, I was happier at home…Do you see where I am going with this?

IT STARTS WITH YOU!

Feeling alive

I am feeling alive because the services I have worked so fucking hard to create are like medicine to those who participate with open minds. My group coaching program, Ignite in Circle, is life-changing empowering experience where women grow, learn and share is sisterhood. Get Unstuck is a wellness workshop series for educators and administrators that teaches you how to create a life more aligned with your values and beliefs while being while creating a happier and healthier school environment. Balancing Act is a much needed workplace wellness workshop that focuses on teaching employees how to happy and healthy at home and work. This past winter, I finished writing Lost & Found: A Road Map to Clarity and Authentic Living that guides its readers into action and claiming the life of their dreams.

Shonda Rhimes said exactly what I was thinking:

I am not lucky.

You know what I am?

I am smart, I am talented,

I take advantage of the opportunities that come my way

and work really, really hard.

Don’t call me lucky.

Call me a badass.

“Irreplaceable Coach - No one shares their drive and enthusiasm like you do.”

-J.T.